tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28516787666531316892024-03-18T20:11:55.991-07:00Amazed and BlessedUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger75125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2851678766653131689.post-28263505097584002502014-07-02T11:35:00.001-07:002014-07-02T11:36:19.233-07:00A New Chapter<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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As most of you may be aware I have stepped down as the president of Forever Friends. One of our other board members, Elizabeth Fries, has stepped down as well.<br />
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My health has not been well enough to continue on with FFOH but my heart will always be with it. Alison Poelen is the President now.<br />
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Even though I am not officially on the board now, I will continue to help in any way I can. These means helping with donations, the web page and of course the blog. I will hope to feature some of the other board members on the blog in order to keep it very current. Keep checking back and hopefully you can help out sometime too! <br />
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Here is to another successful year for FFOH!<br />
Danah HysuickUnknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2851678766653131689.post-31881220915702620862014-03-22T21:12:00.001-07:002014-03-22T21:12:39.890-07:00What I wish I could have said<i><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEie-fcS7_rkgUd-iViYDGHwRcuANB9aH8D0mN6UHT155FzPPAJH7aDfQMg_REd_7EAGiXmZbBwRHr07pfI2lSH4DVVzhmlemub6s1cuAqRnHWC5WOHtqc9bzuFVkYUd29tR2eAbdtVrGR0c/s640/blogger-image-2127145384.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEie-fcS7_rkgUd-iViYDGHwRcuANB9aH8D0mN6UHT155FzPPAJH7aDfQMg_REd_7EAGiXmZbBwRHr07pfI2lSH4DVVzhmlemub6s1cuAqRnHWC5WOHtqc9bzuFVkYUd29tR2eAbdtVrGR0c/s640/blogger-image-2127145384.jpg"></a></div>(I had my speech ready but was too sick to actually go and deliver it this evening. This is what I would have said.)</i><div><br></div><div>Good Evening Everybody<div>Wow what a colorful bunch! </div><div>I was really curious to see how many of the ladies there tonight, also attended our first auction in 2002.</div></div><div>I was going to ask who was in kindergarden or grade one then and who is old enough to attend now. </div><div><br></div><div>We have had a fantastic run. We have given away over 120,000.00 dollars to our applicants. Almost every single cent raised tonight goes directly into the hands of women and their families that need it. I thank you all for entrusting us with the responsibility of ensuring this happens.</div><div><br></div><div>When we get an application, we have to do several things. </div><div>We have to remove all judgment and stick to only the facts on paper. Long ago we decided to help people financially. It is easy to measure success and less sticky than emotion. We are not in the business of healing. We have to remove our bias and judgement about how much a house cost or how much people pay for cable. That is not our place. We look only at the numbers. </div><div><br></div><div>I am not going to tell a woman that is driving alone from Yorkton to Regina for chemo everyday in the winter that maybe she should cancel her cell phone. Her MLA did, when she went to him for help. I didn't. </div><div><br></div><div>We also need to make sure the applicant's privacy is very protected. Only three of us ever know an applicant's name or where she lives. After that, they are assigned a number and that is the only way that we refer to them. This also helps us remain unbiased. </div><div><br></div><div> We also compare her to ourselves. Cancer can grow very quickly. So you buy a travel trailer today. Three days later you find a lump in your breast. You see, what I mean. Life changes on a dime. I have found that by comparing her to ourselves it is easier to remove judgement and just help where we can.</div><div><br></div><div>Ken, our lovely auctioneer tonight, was teasing me last night asking how I got wrapped up in this. So for anyone who doesn't know, here goes. (PS This was also when I was going to encourage our guests to drink more because Ken and the rest of the guys look better after that! Kidding of course! Ken's pretty good looking already :) (Sorry Marnie!) </div><div><br></div><div>I moved to Qu'Appelle in 1998. I met Theresa Frederickson (nee Priddell) shortly after. We were friends until she passed in September of 2001. Sarah her daughter was a year older than my little girl.</div><div><br></div><div>In our knee jerk reaction, and joined by lots and lots of the women in our community, we mobilized and did the Run for the Cure...of course this was so long ago, it wasn't even called the Run for the Cure yet. We raised about $50,000 for research in those days but we noticed there was a huge gap in the quality of life for people. </div><div><br></div><div>The gap was women with no prosthetic or wigs because they had no money. Women with cancer living off of the food bank or worse yet, losing their homes because when you don't work, you don't get paid. 15 weeks of EI can get eaten up pretty quickly, leaving a lot of women still sick and very poor. </div><div><br></div><div>Imagine a mom telling her kids Santa couldn't come because she was sick. Knowing there was no money for gifts or food for a meal. Imagine no new back pack for a little guys starting school because Mommy has cancer. And I tell you, that was one of the hardest phone calls ever. I called and asked a very little voice if I could talk to Mommy and he said I couln't because she was sleeping. I hung up the phone and I cried. And for the record, we made sure that he had all the new school supplies that he needed to start school. The kids were five, three and one. </div><div><br></div><div>We take away the stress of worrying about the power bill and the mortgage payments, in hopes that these women can gather strength and fight instead. </div><div><br></div><div>We are not just another cancer education/research group. We make sure that the women that need lymphodema rehabilitation and support get it. The government doesn't pay for that. We do!</div><div>We make sure that prosthetics fit properly so spine's don't curve. We make sure that people don't get evicted or foreclosed on. SaskCancer doesn't do that. We do! But we can only do this with your help. What you all do here tonight makes a huge difference down the road for these women and their families. And on behalf of all of those women, we thank you. </div><div><br></div><div>I'm sorry. This was a long one. (I guess it is a good thing that I wasn't able to attend. They might still be listening to me!) </div><div><br></div><div>As everyone knows, I am rocking a cane this year. A year ago, yesterday, March 21, 2013, I woke up with a pain in my hip. My health deteriorated and I am still not better and still undiagnosed. One day I think I am getting stronger and the next, I can't get out of bed. Like tonight. But I do feel like I am a fraction of what I was a year ago. </div><div><br></div><div>So it is with a heavy heart and that I made a life altering decision to step down and leave Forever Friends. I have given this group, this cause, everything I have had for 13 years. I have been president for almost it's entire existence. It is a baby that I have watched grow. We were an unknown group and now social workers call us asking if we can help. The cancer agencies refers people to us. We meet people on the street that know who we are and what we do. I have nurtured this organization second only to my children. I am incredibly proud of what we have been able to accomplish. </div><div><br></div><div>I step down knowing that it is in good hands. I know that the women that come after me will do a great job. I know my board will continue to lead in the area of quality of life for cancer support in Saskatchewan. We went from helping women with breast cancer in the Regina Qu'Appelle Health Region to helping all women in Saskatchewan with all types of cancer. We started in our own kitchens as our kids played on the floor to a registered charity and our kids graduating. </div><div><br></div><div>If you want to get involved, host a Lia Sofia party. Call Estelle and have a party. She donated part of the proceeds to us. Host a purse swap. Host a golf tournament. Approach your company about a donation. Volunteer on the board. There are a million ways to get involved. And not just with us, with any organization that you hold close to your heart. </div><div><br></div><div>There are people who say, "Why would I get involved? What would it matter?"</div><div>This group has given me more amazing blessings than I have time to go over. These women have become my friends. These have been an awesome 13 years. It is with a heavy heart that I resign. But a very full heart, full of pride, love and gratitude. </div><div><br></div><div>I appreciate all of you looking to me for leadership in the last 13 years. This has been one of the best and one of the hardest things that I have ever done. </div><div><br></div><div>And I will end as I began, with my glass raised to Theresa. "The joy of knowing her was worth the pain of losing her."</div><div><br></div><div>There but by the grace of God, go I.</div><div><br></div><div>Thank you for the amazing memories! </div><div>http://www.foreverfriendsofhope.org </div><div><br></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com2Americas (null)50.544278 -103.606739tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2851678766653131689.post-15678790876706808842014-03-10T09:04:00.001-07:002014-03-10T09:04:43.396-07:00We Are Getting Closer to the Ladies Night AuctionOur night draws closer. We get more excited. Yesterday I ordered the gift certificate for the Temple Gardens Mineral Spa stay donated by Plainsview Credit Union. I know we have a pretty awesome kids ride on tractor from Young's Equipment. We have jewelry, gift bags, and a pink purse from The Pink Tree. <div><br></div><div>And we are still getting things coming in. Planter's from Wood Country, Travel Bags from Dusyk and Barlow, and what is sure to be a great donation from Whoo Calls in Qu'Appelle. We don't have it yet but last years was a Texas mickey! This year we even have Lia Sofia earrings for some of the balloon pop items. </div><div><br></div><div>The cheesecake bites are ordered, the liquor is on its way. We are having a great time putting everything together. We are meeting on the 16 of March in Qu'Appelle to do my favorite part of the auction. That is when we get everything together. We take some of what we heard last year from the amazing women that support us every year. We try our best to fix any suggestions that we have. We try to make the experience amazing for everyone. We really do listen. </div><div><br></div><div>Our biggest complaint over the years has been that it runs too late. We try really hard to get everything to end by 11. That's not always possible when we have so many AWESOME donations. But that is where the silent auction has come into play. So rest assured we are listening and trying our best to make it a fabulous experience. </div><div><br></div><div>And the biggest announcement of all is our balloon pop sponsor. Matt Inglis is sponsoring our balloon pop this year. Matt has been a huge sponsor since coming on board a few years ago. He has volunteered as a man-whore...I mean server...for years and has always helped with a donation as well. So if you are looking for some financial planning his number is <a href="tel:306-530-1666" x-apple-data-detectors="true" x-apple-data-detectors-type="telephone" x-apple-data-detectors-result="0">306-530-1666</a>. If you would rather email his email is matthew.inglis@rbc.com and tell him we sent you. He really knows his stuff! Thanks again! </div><div><br></div><div>Have a great day everyone!!!</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2851678766653131689.post-84244812693866973862014-03-03T08:54:00.000-08:002014-03-03T08:54:20.640-08:00Forever Friends Ladies Night Out Auction! As we approach the auction, I am aware that I have not blogged as much as I did last year. Although I am not working it seems as though I can not seem to find time to blog here. I have been working on mine and selfishly I suppose, neglected this one. <br />
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The auction is on March 22 this year. We have donation items rolling in and I am very excited to see what all is there in the final swoop. It is always like Christmas morning when we sort everything out. We separate the raffle, balloon pop, and auction items. Find some cute door prize items, and call it a day. We are separating everything on March 16 this year. <br />
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This year we have given away more money than ever before. We helped a woman who needed to have a dental check up before cancer treatments on her throat. Sask Health doesn't pay for check ups and only pays for extractions, nothing else. We helped make sure she was ready for her treatments. <br />
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We helped a family we have helped in the past. She was declared terminal and given three months, almost 2 years ago. The first time I called the house their five year old answered the phone. He said I couldn't talk to Mommy because she was sleeping. I knew from the application that there was a younger set of twins. I cried when I hung up the phone. When we helped before it was before the CPP disability kicked in. This time they were okay except for food. They just needed food. Imagine yourself looking at 3 kids under the age of 8 now and saying to yourself we're okay except for food. <br />
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Because my family and I are in a somewhat similar situation now, I can appreciate the situation these women are in even more. Although I am not in a life threatening situation, (I don't think) it does bring to light the different sides of sickness. <br />
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I hope you all join us for the Ladies Night Out. I have tickets, you can call 699-7788 and I will hook you up! If you would like to donate something let us know and we will come and pick it up when it is convenient for you. <br />
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2851678766653131689.post-7687474708434380682013-12-01T12:08:00.000-08:002013-12-01T12:08:12.783-08:00It really can be you!
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">My speech from Thursday November 28, 2013 at the “Saskatchewan’s
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">I would like to start as a woman I admire ends. “Be kind to
one another!”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ellen DeGeneres makes a
habit to help people that need it.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It
always warms my heart.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Last night I was lucky enough to be at a football banquet
for my son’s team.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>He is 17 and this
year they won the 9man 3A provincial championship.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>At the supper last night, they collected food
for the food bank.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>As I sat and looked
at the team, many were on the honor roll, many play different sports, and they
are all just good kids.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">I got an email from a lady that was a board member.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It was regarding an unexpected donation.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>An eight year old girl named Ashlynn had
decided for her birthday all she wanted from her friends was two toonies.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>One she kept and the other she collected and
gave to us after overhearing from her mom talk about what we do.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>She must have a lot of friends because she
donated $118 in a Ziploc bag!<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">So here is my point.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>There are amazing kids in this world because we made them that way in
the same way that our parents taught us to be kind to one another.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I really do believe that if we got out of bed
every day and decided to be kind to one another, the world would be a better
place.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">This year has been amazing for me.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It has also been a tough year for my family
and I.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I was able to complete my CAIB
designation which was great.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>(For all
you non insurance people this is a big deal!)<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>I was also honored to be nominated and then win a Woman of Distinction
award for my work with Forever Friends.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Some pretty amazing stuff!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>And
then everything changed.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Two days before our spring auction, two days before I wrote
my final CAIB exam, I had a pain in my right hip. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">That pain progressed to more joints and more pain.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Balance problems, hospital stays and unknown
trips to the doctors followed.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>They
actually still don’t know what I have.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>So I am rocking my new accessory, my cane, and having a lot of
naps.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">So in one day my world changed.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>By the end of August I could no longer
work.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I have to take a scooter when I
shop because I can no longer walk through the stores.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I was unable to attend my son’s football
games.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I missed my first Forever Friends
meeting in eleven years.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Everything changed in one day.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I have said over and over that we are all one
diagnosis, one decision away from being in a place in your life from requiring
help.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">My husband put my socks on for the month of September
because I was <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>so sick that I couldn’t do
it myself.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I went from working all the
time, boot camp a couple of nights a week, being the first one in and the last
one out in everything I did, to my husband putting my socks and shoes on for
me.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It still seems surreal to say
it.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">My message is simple.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Do not take your health for granted.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>While you are healthy get disability insurance, make a will, have accessible
savings.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Know what your insurance
covers.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Does your mortgage insurance
have a half pay meaning that only half of your mortgage is covered?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>What are you waiting periods?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ask questions.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Talk to an advisor. Make sure you are set
up.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Your family counts on you.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Small business, look into benefits for your
employees.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Providing for our families-no
matter what is the goal.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Forever Friends helps women financially after a cancer
diagnoses.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We step in and fill in the
blanks for women who have exhausted their 15 weeks of disability and are left
to social services.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Because if you are
not terminal, there is no long term disability in this country.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Our government prefers to pay 25 year old
people not to work and not to help people that can’t.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>But I digress, that is for a different speech.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>This year alone we have stopped 2 evictions
and paid for dental visits.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Imagine
needing 150 dollars to pull a tooth that is causing great pain and having no
way to get this money.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We have paid for lymphedema
support, ostomy supplies, and food.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">The one that really hits home now is a family with 2 kids, a
mother that is terminal, and a father that worked a job for years at $14
dollars an hour and just got laid off.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>With not even enough food in the house, there would definitely be no Christmas.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We gave them money for food, and sponsored
them for a Salvation Army Adopt a Family.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Santa will still come to their house this year.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Anyone who has ever heard me speak knows how I feel about
this.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I have been saying it for
years.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>But even I have learned this year
that it could happen to me.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">I am not telling you all of this for sympathy.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>As I walk off the stage tonight, picture
yourself in my shoes.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Imagine your own
life.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>And remember, there but by the
grace of God, go I.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Thank you all!<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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We have received donations from South Country Haven donated the first and Sirius Taxidermy supplies donated the other. We are looking forward to both auctions. Our meeting is on the 17th in order to get everything organized. We will have more pictures then. <br />
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It always seems to happen. As we are preparing for an event, we get an applicant. This always helps us to keep us grounded. A woman with no income, living with her son. Not old enough for pension and no social services coverage. In need of colonoscopy supplies. <br />
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And so it continues. Call Danah 306-699-7788 for tickets to our Saskatchewan's Got Talent. Thank you all for helping us, help others!<br />
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As everyone hopefully knows, we are having a big event in November. Planning has been going very well!<br />
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As you can see we have a lot going on. Just this morning we found out that The Honorable Speaker of the House, Andrew Scheer has agreed to allow us to auction off a meal with him. This is very exciting for us! We are exploring the idea for some other famous folks! Keep an eye on the Face Book page for updates!</div>
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Thanks for reading! We also helped two women this month. There are a lot of supplies that are not covered by the government that we would usually assume are paid for. For example colostomy bags. These can be quite expensive, especially if the patients stomach does not react well to chemo. The government does have some programs that pay for half but they only reimburse about a month after, not up front. We have helped in the past by paying for the first month upfront, and the other half in advance. It is sometimes the hard to talk about effects of cancer that we should be talking about more. </div>
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I was in Humbolt for the last of my CAIB courses. I sat on the bed in a hotel room with my knees up studying for 8 days. On Thursday my hip was stiff and kind of sore, but not that it would slow you down. I wrote my test on Saturday morning and got home just in time for the auction. I was dressed in my '80's garb and high heeled boots. I lasted until about 10 in my heels and my feet hurt so I swapped for my flats. After the auction I stood bent over a table for about an hour and a half. And then we went to the bar and stood for another hour. By the time I got home, my hip ached. Really hurt. We cleaned up the next day and I was limping. Chalked it up to sitting in the room reading for and then being bent over for so long. <br />
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And then it continued to hurt. It hurt for 4 weeks so I made a doctors appointment. They sent me for X-Rays and blood tests. Then they called me to come back. That is never a good feeling. It was a long week to wait. <br />
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Then they told me I have Rheumatoid Arthritis (RA). I have marked degeneration in my right hip. Since then it has also affected both hips, my knees and ankles. <br />
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I have worked with women with cancer for 11 years. I have never had it. I'm not a survivor. I never really understood the emotional side of a diagnoses. I don't do well with the emotional side of anything actually. But I finally understand. Well a bit anyways. RA isn't life threatening. So it still isn't exactly the same. But it is life changing. <br />
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I have always worked hard. I try to always be the first one in and the last one out on anything I do. Being told that you have to slow down was not something I could get my head around. I have been incredibly tired lately but wrote it off as a side effect of the migraine pills. But now I had a reason. <br />
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They have prescribed me increasing doses of pain killers. Anti inflammatory drugs designed to reduce the inflammation in my joints which can also cause stomach ulcers but right now that is the least of my worries. They initially told me that the wait to see a rheumatologist was 5-6 months. <br />
However, the physiotherapist and my doctor built a case for me and got me an appointment next week. For that I am grateful.<br />
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RA is an auto immune systematic disease. It is not "my knees get a little stiff in the morning" kind of arthritis. This is how it works. My body has decided that my joints need protection from an imaginary threat. My body is trying to immobilize my joints in order to stabilize them. Then it sends inflammatory cells to my joints. The more I do, the more my body send these cells. These cells if you are hurt help heal you. When you are not hurt, they act like acid on your bones. My body is fighting itself. In order to try to minimize the swelling in my joints, I am to do pretty much as little as possible because I am in what they call a flare up. A three month long no end in sight flare up. <br />
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I sit on a lot of ice in the evenings. I am pretty good in the morning but at night it's not good. I have found that I need a ton of sleep. And if I nap in the afternoon, I can work a bit later. And it hurts, all the time. Even with the pain killers, it still hurts. Sometimes I can barely walk. Sometimes not to bad but there is no rhyme or reason to it. <br />
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After the doctor told me what it was, I will admit, I was terrified. Your mobility is something that we all take for granted. Like any bit of our good health I suppose. It took me a couple of weeks to get my head around it. I shed some tears, freaked out a little and then came back to reality. <br />
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I am grateful for it where it is. It is not in my hands. I can still write. I can still work although I am slower but I am still able to work. And I have decided that it just hurts. I am still going to be able to do all of the things I want to, just maybe in a scooter. <br />
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I am not asking for sympathy. no one needs to send notes of encouragement. I don't write to make people to feel sorry for me. I am just letting everyone know at once. It is easier this way. <br />
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I am writing to remind everyone that we are one diagnoses away from a huge change in your life, your beliefs, and your priorities. <br />
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2851678766653131689.post-1920775209276759352013-05-19T08:00:00.003-07:002013-05-19T08:00:56.710-07:00Fundraising can be kind of difficult at times. Sometimes I feel like the person everyone wants to hide from. Like people cross the street to avoid me, to avoid buying another ticket, being asked to volunteer or attend an event. <br />
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I hosted a Lia Sofia fundraiser on Friday. It was super fun. We raised over 560 dollars for FFOH and we got over a thousand dollars worth of free jewelry that we are going to use for our different events. It was probably the easiest fundraiser I have ever done. <br />
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We have had a group of women raise money for us with a purse swap. We have had people donate money from a golf tournament. We have had people organize steak nights. Believe me, every bit of the money people donate to us is a huge help. Every dollar someone else raises is a dollar we don't have to raise but desperately need. <br />
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We appreciate what others have done for us. Because it sometimes takes so little to really help someone every little bit helps. <br />
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The moral of the story is, if anyone out in cyber space would be interested on hosting a fundraiser for us we would be very grateful. <br />
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Thanks for the reads everyone! We appreciate it! Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2851678766653131689.post-71787335821300999262013-05-05T20:14:00.000-07:002013-05-05T20:14:27.784-07:00Time passingSome days I miss my friend more than others. Friday I missed her a lot. I wished she was here to share this with me. I know that she is the reason that I have these opportunities. I also know that my eyes would not have been opened to the need of Forever Friends unless we lost her. <br />
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Our latest applicant was in dire circumstances. Although not in the same way as some of our applicants. The chemo had done damage to her teeth and gums. She needed a tooth pulled desperately. The social workers called and told me she was in a lot of pain. We were able to get her approved in one hour from receiving the application. She was to the dentist the next day. The work ended up being half of what the estimate was. Her family called me back to thank me for what we did for her.<br />
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Here is the amazing part. She is palliative. For 149 dollars we were able to stop her pain. What if FFOH wasn't here? Then what? Would she have just suffered until she died? Is this okay in our world today? In Canada? I want to believe there would have been somewhere she could have turned too. I just don't know that there is. This is what makes me so proud of what we do. <br />
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Now for an update on some of the other things going on with FFOH. I was invited to Saskatoon to the Hope Cancer Clinic to talk about some of the things that works for FFOH. They asked for some input into their program. It was very flattering to be invited. And when people let me talk about FFOH for as long as I want without them getting bored, I get very happy. Really its a win-win situation. <br />
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And one more thing. As I have mentioned in the past, some of the partners that FFOH has worked with, Lisa B Originals to be exact, nominated me as a YWCA Woman of Distinction. As amazing as it is, I was actually given the award in the Community Leadership and Enhancement category on Thursday night. <br />
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I want to thank everyone who took the time to write a letter of support. I want to thank Garry and Pam Frigon for taking the time to start the nomination process. I doubt that in my whole life I will top that feeling. It is easily one of the best moments of my life. Garry, Shirley, Geri, Mom, Virginia, and Derek-Thank You for being there to share that moment with me. It really has been a very amazing week. <br />
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Thank you all for the reads and shares. We have had over 5300 readers. Amazing! Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2851678766653131689.post-58209274816045975562013-04-21T20:14:00.000-07:002013-04-21T20:14:54.474-07:00Responsible ConsumerismI have decided to write a post about something that is becoming more and more important to me as I get older and more appreciative of life. <br />
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I asked my girl what the words "responsible consumerism" meant to her. She said "I don't know what that means." So I told her. At least I told her what it means to me. <br />
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To me this means we are responsible for what we consume. I have touched on my beliefs before with responsible donating, and this is one step further. <br />
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I saw a post on Facebook and I have no idea if it was true or not but it is what got me thinking about this. The post was a picture of a rancher carrying a calf through a snow storm. The caption was something about PETA, that when the snow storm hit North Dakota the ranchers put out a plea to PETA to ask for help saving their cattle from the storm and no one from PETA showed up. <br />
Again I will emphasize that I have no idea if this is true but it got me thinking. <br />
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I wonder if the girls who stand naked on the street corners promoting PETA, trying to guilt people into not eating meat or any animal product, would come out to a ranch and chase cattle. <br />
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I eat beef. I eat pork. Actually judging from the size of my butt, there isn't much food I don't like. <br />
I grew up on a ranch. I understand how the process works. I don't believe that my parents are not ethical people because they raise beef. I was raised to be honest, faithful and hard working. I was raised around animals. My family farmed pigs at first. When I was a little (and I mean little) girl, my dad would go out to the barn first. He would clean the first piglet pen. My mom and I would go out a few minutes after. They would put me in the clean pen with the piglets and mom and dad would do chores. There are pictures of me curled up with a piglet sleeping in the clean straw.<br />
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We processed our own pork in those days. My dad ground the pork by hand. We kids would feed the grinder and wrap the meat. We ate well. We worked as a family. <br />
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My mom and dad decided to go into cattle in the '80's. I grew up feeding, treating and chasing cattle. We helped with every step of the process. That's where developed my crush on CKRM that I still haven't grown out of. I learned that Mother Nature has an amazing ability to feed, clothe and nurture us all. <br />
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So here is my point. Eating farm raised meat from a responsible farmer is not a bad thing. <br />
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If you as a consumer, are responsible for your choices, choose wisely. You vote with your dollars. If you want your beef to be raised by a good farmer, buy it from a good farmer. If you want organic eggs, look for a person that sells organic farm eggs. Buy local. If you research your product and choose to be a consumer of a product that you support, that is responsible consumerism. <br />
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Buying local and supporting local are different things. If you want your local grocery store to be there on a Sunday when you need milk, don't complain about the price of milk. They charge what they have to to make money. They aren't Costco with a thousand people walking through the door everyday. They also aren't a charity. They go to work everyday to make a living. I have lived in a small town all my life. I have owned a business in a small town. I scraped out a living for my family. I didn't get rich. I went to work everyday and appreciated the local support I got from my community everyday. <br />
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Ethical people grow food to feed the world. It is a noble profession that I am honored to say I was part of once. I choose to eat locally grown beef and eggs. I am grateful for the milk I can by in the town where I live, even if it is a dollar more a carton. I shop in local stores when I can and support the people I know whenever I can. I try to practice what I preach. I stand for responsible consumerism today. <br />
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"You've got to stand for something or you'll fall for anything." Aaron Tippen. <br />
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2851678766653131689.post-1014254685045228642013-04-16T18:01:00.002-07:002013-04-16T18:01:28.129-07:00Action for Change!"<em>Its a great life if you don't weaken"</em><br />
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I don't know who said it, feel free to let me know if you do. I know my Grandma White said it all the time. <br />
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"<em>If wishes were horses beggars would ride"</em> <br />
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That's another one my Grandma would say over the years. It wasn't until I was a grown up that I truly understood what she meant. Now I see. It is a great life if you can make it through each day at least mostly intact. And then if you can get up the next day and do it again, it's a great life. It truly is great.<br />
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Sometimes just before the FFOH auction we get tired. We get tired and over whelmed. We love getting the auction ready. We love hosting the auction. We clean up. We don't love that but we do it. In the early years this morning after was the best part of the auction. When it was still at the bar, we would have coffee and eat some left over fruit and go over the best parts of the night. Then we would clean up. Now we bring coffee and visit for a bit but really, its not quite the same. That's just me being nostalgic.<br />
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And right after that weekend we are weaker than at any point in the year. We are tired and weak. And then we get a couple of good nights sleep and then it comes back. Our resolve, our determination, our strength. And its a great life. <br />
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We make wishes everyday. We wish cancer didn't happen. We wish families were not struck by the devastation that follows. We wish we had millions of dollars and didn't have to pound the pavement and fund raise constantly. We wish we didn't have to do what we do. Quite frankly, I wish there was no need for FFOH. But there is. We will not ride. We will not stand by and make idle wishes. We will do what we can to help the situation. <br />
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Don't let anyone tell you not to try and change any situation that you are in if you are not happy with it. You can. You can change your world. Maybe not the whole world but your world. Once upon a time, women couldn't vote. We couldn't work. We were not allowed to divorce our abusive spouses. Someone set about to change their world and ended up changing it all. <br />
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Whatever change that you would like to see in the world, do all you can to achieve it. If you would like to help people with cancer, do it. If you want to help with cancer research, do it. If you want to support stopping climate change, do it. But please do something. <br />
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Don't be a beggar riding through a mediocre life on hollow wishes. Join the fight. Join the people that are making a difference. Do not pay lip service. Put your time, your muscle and your thought behind it and act with purpose. We do not have to live in a world we are not happy with. We can change it. <br />
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If you would like to help with Forever Friends, let me know. We would love to have you. If not us then call someone. Join a movement for a better world. We really can do it together. <br />
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2851678766653131689.post-9651404501301103822013-03-27T08:49:00.002-07:002013-03-27T08:49:45.950-07:00Our MenOne of the very important groups we sometimes forget to thank are our men. I understand that not every man wants to spend a Friday and Saturday night and a Sunday morning in a room full of yelling and screaming women. (And that is just the set up!) <br />
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But they do. Year after year our men help with set up, take down, and everything in between. Some stay home with the kids so the wives can be there. Everyone pulls together and plays a role in putting together this great night. <br />
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And then we have our volunteers. Thirty men this year wanting to help. We auctioned off 12 of them for 2570 dollars I might add, one sold liquor tickets, four worked the bar, six carried items around, three auctioneers, and four that filled in whenever they were needed, whenever they could. We could not put on this event without the support of the volunteers. <br />
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And the long term volunteers especially. Bob Schaeffer and Mike Fries who have been at the auction every year. Troy Douglas who has auctioned for us for ten years. Alyen Arther who has been at most of the auctions, even giving it the old college try to auction for us the very first year. Rick Slaferek who supports us with amazing sponsorship, volunteering and ideas (like auctioning off next years table at the front.) The list simply goes on and on.<br />
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A couple of volunteers that happen not to be men, Sue Fricker and Crystal Cook, have also been involved in one way or another for many years. And if I recall correctly, the original auction idea came from Sue. <br />
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So you see, we could do none of this on our own. We appreciate each and every volunteer. Thanks to everyone who came out and supported us with blood, sweat and tears this year. We would not want to do any of this without you. <br />
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Please just try to remember at the end of everyday to be grateful for the first world frustrations that fill our lives. Caught in traffic in your 40,000 dollar car, burned one of the steaks for supper, your healthy kid brought home a B in Math, ask yourself "Really, Seriously..." and be grateful. </div>
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It took about 3 1/2 hours to get here because the roads are pretty poor. Luckily though I don't have to move until March 23 now. I don't mind that much, looking at the weather outside. When I am done I will write a test on Saturday and come home right after and then head to the auction. After this week I should be done my learnin' for a while. <br />
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The ladies of FFOH are in full swing. Donation items have to be in tomorrow and will be sorted out on Monday night. Items are being dropped off in rapid fire succession. A really cool plant stand from Indian Head Agencies, a purse from Tru-Fit Denture, Inverness Consulting, some awesome pottery, Blairs, Saskmade Market Place, a cool gift basket from The Pink Tree, Thee Lingere Shoppee, Co-op Refineries, Rider jersey, Matt Inglis, the Geis family, and the list goes on and on. As usual, an astounding display from our community. There will be a whirlwind of activity for the whole group this week. <br />
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Strange things happen as our group reaches further out. Things like Richie Brothers reaching out to help auctioneer. Our long time auctioneer, Troy Douglas, graciously stepped up and agreed to share the huge job of auctioning off our items. This is the amazing thing. People are coming out to offer to help us. This is truly when our long time supporters shine through. The people who truly care about FFOH are the ones that put themselves aside and recognize the outside help and work with it. You really see the true side of great people in situations like this. So Troy, my hat is off to you yet again. Ten years of amazing support and the graciousness and help extends even further. We cannot thank you enough. <br />
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We have great guys to auction off this year. We can't wait to see how the man servents will go this year, or as Troy calls them the man-whores. Again we have had people contacting us to volunteer.<br />
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And because I am very blessed through my work with FFOH, awesome things happen to me. Recently, this became very apparent. I was very humbled to find out that friends of FFOH, folks that we met through an applicant, Garry and Pam Frigon from Lisa B Originals, have nominated me for a YWCA Woman of Distinction Award in
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I am very grateful for this nomination. I won't lie, winning would be super cool, but just that fact that people thought enough of me to nominate me, write and collect the letters of support, and stand behind me, takes my breath away. <br />
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You all know I am not a real emotional sort but reading all of the letters from people that I thought would hardly even remember me, let alone care enough to write a letter, put a huge lump in my throat. Not to mention the people that I know well that sent in a letter without me knowing a thing. <br />
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I will keep you posted on how it works out but for now, know that I can not keep count of my blessings. Thank you all. <br />
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We tried a new system for ticket sales that went over very well. We had a line up outside the 50+ Club starting at 9:30. That was amazing to see. Our first sale was for 20 tickets. The Pay Pal account worked very well. I was very nervous about how that would all work together. But it went very smoothly. We found a new system that really worked for us. <br />
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We sold 131 tickets in the first 15 minutes. At the end of the four hours we only had 29 tickets left. We are down a few more tickets now. I think we only have 19 left. I am very happy that we are almost completely done. It was very easy to get the tickets sold, letters addressed and mailed out in the same few hours. So much simpler. <br />
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Items are rolling in. We have some amazing things coming in. We are grateful for the generosity of people every day. And as if a reminder of what we do, we have an application waiting for a woman who had exhausted her EI disability and is still taking chemo and radiation. She will need thousands to keep food on the table until she can return to work in the summer time. IF she can return to work. <br />
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And there but by the grace of God, go I.<br />
Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2851678766653131689.post-5879907394976847292013-02-24T09:54:00.001-08:002013-02-24T09:54:01.010-08:00MIA Control issuesSo here's the deal. I am a bit of a control freak. This is probably not a big surprise to those people close to me. There is probably a lot of eye rolling going on in the Internet world right now. The auction is coming up and there has been a development. <br />
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Everyone in FFOH has real jobs. We all have real world commitments. I am a real estate agent and an insurance broker. There are several levels to both my jobs but my insurance is the one that requires my attention now. I will be away from home from the 15th to the late afternoon of the 23 taking a course. I have a test in the morning of the 23 so I won't be back until after I write the test and drive the three hours home. This means that for the first time in eleven years I won't be there to help set up the auction. <br />
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Don't get me wrong, I have complete faith in my board. I know they will do great. I can't say that I will be okay but I know that the auction is in good hands. <br />
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The Indian Head Bakery is on board to do the cheesecake buffet for us this year, yum! And the Domo in Qu'Appelle is going to be our liquor provider again. Scot's Printing is on board to help by printing tickets and getting our decorations ordered in. <br />
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My control issues are running full blast right now. It's really amazing to me. FFOH still after all this time challenges me to face different parts of me personality. I knew I had issues but now I am forced to face them. It's good really. Because it forces me to remember to have faith. Keep calm and carry on.<br />
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As a reminder, our tickets go on sale March 1 at 10 AM. Call 699-7788 to buy yours. Or you can go to our site and pay online using paypal or a credit card. Mark it on your calender and don't forget! <br />
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Thanks for the reads!<br />
Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2851678766653131689.post-31936926595238720062013-02-03T18:13:00.002-08:002013-02-03T18:13:55.360-08:00Back to the land of planningWe are on the countdown to our spring auction. Our letters have gone out, donations are already coming in. Co-op Refineries, Dusyk and Barlow, Thee Lingeree Shoppee, Sherwood Co-op and Indian Head Technologies are on board already. The response is always amazing. <br />
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We are set for the 23 of March. I am looking forward to it. The lovely April Nichol is on board to be our MC for the evening. We have a great evening shaping up again. The caterer for the evenings appy's is Crystal Cook who was our caterer last year as well. We are very lucky to have the support of these great folks. <br />
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We are going to start selling tickets at 10 AM on March 1 at the 50+ club in Qu'Appelle. We will be manning the phones and watching the Internet for donations and then we will be mailing out the tickets that match the donations that morning. If there are any tickets left after 2 PM they will be available at Qu'Appelle Agencies of by calling me. 306-699-7788<br />
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Please support the people that support us. We can't thank them enough. Need a new car, the Capital Auto Mall was a gold sponsor. Need new underwear, The Pink Tree or Thee Lingerie Shoppee are huge supporters of what we do. Let our sponsors know that you are choosing to support them because they support us. <br />
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So mark the date on your calender. Both the first for tickets and the 23 for the Ladies Night Out Auction. Our theme is the 80's this year so get your spandex and crimpers out. Call me if you would like to donate something, we would love to have the help. I look forward to hearing from you all!<br />
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Thanks for the reads!Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2851678766653131689.post-27170066865639074422013-01-19T16:24:00.000-08:002013-01-19T16:24:32.025-08:00StakeholdersHello all!<br />
It feels like forever since I have had time to write. And even now I am cooking supper and writing at the same time. You know, busy like every other woman on the planet. How does a stove top crust frittata sound? Hopefully yummy. But at the very least it's a meal. <br />
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Some cool stuff has been happening with FFOH recently. We are lucky enough to be on the list of stakeholders on breast cancer in Saskatchewan. This means that we get invited to meetings that a few years ago I could only dream of. <br />
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Don't get me wrong, I didn't sit at home and pine away about not getting to extra meetings, but I did always see a disconnect in the system that I knew wasn't right. We knew in dealing with our applicants that there were huge gaps in the system. For example, here is a story. <br />
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A woman and her daughter applied for a trip to Calgary for a very specific test that is only done there. The husband and wife lived on just over 1200 dollars a month. The health region only pays for the cost of the test, no other costs' When she applied for travel expenses from one of the other cancer organizations, she was given enough for a bus ticket to Calgary. This woman was about 70 years old, and very sick. She was already going for chemo as it was. She was from a small town in Saskatchewan so getting off a bus in the middle of Calgary and finding her way to a hotel, the hospital, back to the bus station and home again was no easy task. Obviously her daughter wanted to accompany her. The daughter paid for her own ticket, took time off work and was ready to go. Now here is where the gap in the system emerged. The husband in this situation had later stages dementia. He could not be left alone. There was no other family that could help. He couldn't go with them obviously, and home care is not free. The respite for this gentle man was 750 dollars for 47 hours. There was no organization that could help in this situation, nothing they could do. Luckily FFOH could help and did but this is a huge gap in the system. <br />
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Years ago, all we could do is complain amongst ourselves about short falls in the system, but now we have a voice. An organization has been formed called the Saskatchewan Breast Cancer Connect or SBCC. This organization is trying to close the gap with knowledge. This isn't a fund raising group. This group recognizes all of the efforts going on in the province and is attempting to tie them all together with meetings focused on getting the right people in the same room. This includes social workers, hospital heads, physiotherapists, large cancer research and education organizations and grass roots charities. The reason this is important is that we can come together and basically teach each other about great programs that exist in parts of the province that we may not know about. Basically it gives our applicants a voice for their specific circumstance. I can voice my concerns over problems they have encountered (not specifically of course) and bring them into the light of day. <br />
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<a href="http://www.leaderpost.com/health/Saskatchewan+breast+cancer+organization+maps+available+services/7841420/story.html" target="_blank">http://www.leaderpost.com/health/Saskatchewan+breast+cancer+organization+maps+available+services/7841420/story.html</a><br />
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So this is why I am so excited that I have been asked to more meetings. Thanks to the organizers! Getting 45 people from such diverse backgrounds and fields of specialty cannot be easy but it was done! This meeting did not cost FFOH anything but we got so much out!<br />
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Thanks for the reads today. No organization in Saskatchewan helps in the way that FFOH does. The Hope Center in Saskatoon is similar but not on the scale that FFOH is. And they have paid employees. (Not bragging, just stating a fact. LOL) The more I see in the world the more proud I am of Forever Friends. <br />
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The auction is drawing near. You will be hearing much more of me! Thanks again!Unknownnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2851678766653131689.post-49076138300680639192012-12-13T18:48:00.001-08:002012-12-13T18:48:26.097-08:00Final NumbersOkay so here is the good news! <br />
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This is an amazing group of women. <br />
Our 620 CKRM presents "Saskatchewan's Got Talent" raised a total of 12,248.00 dollars for Forever Friends of Hope. We sold 199 tickets. We had six amazing levelled sponsors, and lots of silent auction and table sponsors. The night was a great success! <br />
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We had one woman, over a year ago, that was at a level of desperation that was outside of what we had seen before. To get her back on her feet and keep her there until she was returned to work took 12,000 dollars. That money may go to one person who needs it desperately or 12 people that just need a little help. <br />
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This season, as the holidays approach, know that a lot of people are struggling. In one way or another, we all struggle. Some struggle more during the holidays. Some find solace in it. Wherever you are in your life, wherever you want to be, remember that this life we have is a blessing and a gift. Use your life, the rest of your days to leave your world a better place. I don't mean give all your money to charity and live as a pauper. I mean don't yell at waiters or your kids, don't take your spouse for granted, tell them you love them or better yet, show them. Look in the mirror and accept and love the person you see. Sometimes we need to be kind to ourselves first. <br />
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We can't quit our jobs and live each day on the beach making each moment count like all the motivational posters lead us to believe. We have to keep the lights on, shoes on the kids, and food on the table. We can do those things with an open air of kindness, to ourselves and others. I think it is a feeling, a thought, a real gut level emotion, not a specific act. Random acts of kindness should not be rare. They should be a way of life. I try to make them mine. I don't always succeed but I try. <br />
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Thank you all for reading!Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2851678766653131689.post-34209841735119777832012-12-07T18:22:00.001-08:002012-12-07T18:22:28.165-08:00Our Thanks To The Ladies That Help Us Along The Way<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-size: small;">Talent always finds a way to support and strengthen those around them. The talent of these women is remarkable. The makers of the dream quilt are a group of ladies that quilt in their spare time. </span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;">One of these ladies is my Aunt to I may be biased but I am very impressed by the work they do on these quilts. Very beautiful. I had asked them to make a quilt for us for our tenth anniversary. They made and gave us one. When we looked at it, we realized that it was much to beautiful to put in the auction. You see in the auction we may have gotten a few hundred dollars for it. But by raffling it we were able to maximize this fantastic gift. We asked them if they were okay with a raffle and they were very gracious and agreed. </span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;">In the mean time, one of our members talked to the maker of the Denim Cancer Quilt. When Linda heard what we were doing she decided to make one to donate as well. </span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;">And that is how we were lucky enough to get these two great quilts. </span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;">We want to extend our deepest thanks to these ladies for their help with this raffle. We really could not have done it without them. </span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;">Thanks so much ladies! You Rock! </span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;">Thanks for the reads and shares. We appreciate it so much.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;">Over 4000 readers. How cool is that!</span></td></tr>
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2851678766653131689.post-79294765396907417632012-12-01T17:48:00.001-08:002012-12-01T17:48:41.801-08:00The days after-CKRM Rocks!620 CKRM The Source ROCKS!<br />
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As many of you know I am a very devoted CKRM listener. When I approached CKRM with the idea of a title sponsorship I didn't expect anything. Low expectations are the key to happiness because when they said yes, I was over the moon excited. <br />
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Here's how it shook down. <br />
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At the "What Women Want" Show last year, Pam and Garry Frigon met Gloria Evans. Gloria is one of the morning DJ's on 620. Pam and Garry told Gloria about FFOH. Gloria asked us if she could come to the auction we have in the spring and help in any way. We were very excited. She came out and helped guest MC with our wonderful MC Jill. However, about half way through the evening we lost Gloria. I found her in the back helping keep track of the items. We were running a few hands short and she noticed another way to help us out. She piled into the work and never looked back. <br />
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As we were communicating via email about the auction, I got brave and sent her the info for the Saskatchewan's Got Talent. She forwarded it to the powers that be and voila! Title Sponsorship. Please see my former blogs for my excitement about this. <br />
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Perry Nyhas met with me and set everything up. He is a great guy, very kind. However whenever I am near him I get so nervous. I see him with such reverence. I can't help it. I grew up listening to him and am still awestruck. However, I digress. <br />
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Gloria and Jamie interviewed me on the morning show, then set it up so I could go over to 92.1 and have an interview with them. I was so nervous. But the graciousness of everyone at Harvard was amazing. <br />
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Just before "Saskatchewan's Got Talent" on Thursday, Perry Nyhas stopped by. He and I were standing in the Show Lounge at the Casino Regina. Just us, we were looking at the silent auction items spread out the length of the lounge and surveying the lounge. The sound guy Edgar, came up to me and asked a question. And it hit me. I looked around at Perry Nyhas talking to me, a sound guy asking me something and thought "WHAT THE HELL HAVE I DONE? WHAT HAVE I GOT MYSELF INTO?" I had no idea what I was doing, what was going on and had the most surreal moment. <br />
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I am sure that I screwed something up. Positive that I made some sort of a mistake. I know we fixed one mistake in the afternoon. But I am sure that there are more. I know I learned a lot. I know that I am very grateful for the wonderful staff at the Casino Regina. They fixed a mix up with amazing ease. (I'm sure they swore at me but if we do it again, I will be much better. I promise.) But I know with certainty that what we did was successful. We raised some money. I will let you know how much as soon as we have it tallied. But there is more.<br />
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This is how I know we were successful!<br />
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This picture is compliments of Pam Frigon with the United Voices Choir out of Balgonie. </div>
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These girls put on a great and emotional show. But here they are hanging out in the green room with our second preformer Colby Nargang. </div>
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These girls got to preform in the show lounge. They missed school, got their hair and makeup done by Marvel Beauty School, had an afternoon sound check, had three costume changes and hopefully the time of their lives. I hope we have, in part, inspired another generation of girls to make a difference in any way they can.</div>
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So, with all the work, worry, and moments of down right panic, it's over. I want to thank CKRM for all of the help and guidance. I want to thank our performers. </div>
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United Voices</div>
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Gloria Evans! </div>
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More thanks to follow. But for now, I want everyone to know how much we appreciate CKRM for all the help. Thanks for the reads and shares. I am forever Amazed and Blessed! </div>
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<td height="20" style="background-color: transparent; border: 0px black; height: 15pt; width: 410pt;" width="546"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">These are the awesome prizes we will be bidding on in the Silent Auction. We have amazing supporters and I would like to point out that most of these folks are not our regular sponsors. We were able to find some new sponsors to help us out this time. The graciousness of Saskatchewan never ceases to amaze me. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">We add to the list of sponsors Ashley Todd, Gracom, Capital Auto Mall, Originals by Mary Jane, Inverness, The Delta, Temple Gardens Mineral Spa, The Pink Tree, Thee Lingerie Shoppee, BC Mutual Insurance, The Sandpiper, Payless Furniture, Indian Head Agencies, George Pawuiak, Wood Country, Scot's Printing, RBC, Just For You Day Spa, Bounce Hair Company, Shirley Wass, Wascana Remedial Massage, SaskPower, Dakota Dunes, West Jet and Chad and April Nichols. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Please take note of our sponsors. If you need something they sell, please look them up. These are great people who believe in and care about our province and the people in it. </span><br />
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<td height="20" style="background-color: transparent; border: 0px black; height: 15pt;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">Golb balls, shirt, water bottle, bottle
opener, Cadillac hat, Warriors Hooded Sweater</span></td>
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<td height="20" style="background-color: transparent; border: 0px black; height: 15pt;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">Hat, tire flush, oil change, Warriors T
shirt travel Mug and bottle opener</span></td>
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<td height="20" style="background-color: transparent; border: 0px black; height: 15pt;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">Cut and Color, 1 hour Massage<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>& Manicure and Pedicure</span></td>
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<td height="20" style="background-color: transparent; border: 0px black; height: 15pt;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">$ 70 dollar Gift Certificate and Watch</span></td>
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<td height="20" style="background-color: transparent; border: 0px black; height: 15pt;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">Jacket, Mitts, Hat & Scarf</span></td>
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<td height="20" style="background-color: transparent; border: 0px black; height: 15pt;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">Pen, hat, blanket, Golf shirt, and balls
towel</span></td>
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<td height="20" style="background-color: transparent; border: 0px black; height: 15pt;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">Blanket, Steak knives and BBQ Set</span></td>
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<td height="20" style="background-color: transparent; border: 0px black; height: 15pt;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">Car Brush, Gift Certificate for Oil
change and car wash, Pen Flashlight and tire tester and bag</span></td>
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and Watch</span></td>
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beverage gift certificate, gift certificate from Just For You Day Spa</span></td>
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<td height="20" style="background-color: transparent; border: 0px black; height: 15pt;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">Travel Mug, Long Sleeved shirt and $70
dollar Massage</span></td>
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<td height="20" style="background-color: transparent; border: 0px black; height: 15pt;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">Dewalt Impact Drill 18 volt</span></td>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">See you all on Thursday. This is the last call for meal tickets. I need the numbers in by Monday at noon. </span><br />
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Dionne Warner is a cancer survivor that has an amazing outlook on life. Together, she and her husband Graham, have battled cancer 7 times. This amazing story was captured by Deana J. Driver. You can get a copy by clicking the link below. <br />
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Because of an amazing turn of events we were introduced to Dionne. We asked Dionne if she would consider speaking at our event in the fall. I have to say, I did not expect her to say yes. The book was very popular. They seemed to be in speaking engagements all over the country and I simply thought they would be too busy for our event. <br />
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To my amazement she said yes. I look very forward to meeting her in person on Thursday. They are also going to have a table set up for Deana (the author), Dionne and Graham to sell and sign books. Dionne is going to speak at the beginning of our event. Their upbeat attitude, in my opinion, is the reason that they have been so successful with their fight. I look forward to hearing her. <br />
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Dinner tickets are available until Monday November 26,2012 at noon. Tickets for the show only are available right up until the show starts at the Showlounge in Casino Regina.<br />
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Thanks for the reads everyone! I look forward to hearing from you!<br />
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